Studies
support that
the divorce rate is up in America
by nearly fifty percent. Our world has changed so much over the years,
it is no
wonder that the number of divorces have been elevated. Marriages are
faced with
numerous challenges today, causing an already week relationship to
crumble
under the difficult times.
In today's society, it is a common occurrence for both men and woman to
have
full-time jobs. It can become very difficult finding a way of juggling
the
responsibilities of a family and a career. With so many couples signing
divorce
settlements, there have been several attempts within the past few years
to aid
the survival of today's marriages.
If you think about the divorce rate fifty to seventy five years ago,
you would
find that it was not often considered an option, or even talked about.
But
today, with divorce rates up so drastically , many people around the
world are
wondering what is happening in our society.
The reality is that married couples today face many different
challenges than
they did long ago. To make ends meet it is not uncommon for both the
man and
woman in a marriage to work outside the home. When children are brought
into
the picture the pressure and responsibilities only increase.
If the marriage is not good to start with, many couples find themselves
not
being able to cope with all the outside pressures. But research has
proven
there are some solutions to lowering the divorce rate, and people all
over the
country are starting to take notice.
The National Press Club did a study in 2004 to outline how to help
reduce America's
divorce rate. Called, a "Community Marriage Policy," this study
called for clergy members of diverse religious groups in over 100
different counties
to combine in their strategy to aid couples in preventing divorce.
The platform encouraged the clergy to collectively coach couples from
any
religious group so they could give marriage prep classes, suggestions
on how to
improve upon and strengthen one's marriage, and offer therapy for
emergency
situations.
This down to earth effort has shown that through guidance from these
means,
couples could find help they needed to face the challenges in their own
marriages.
The final results of the study showed a decrease in the divorce rate of
over
seventeen percent for the counties that participated.
The divorce rate in North American is on the rise, but there are
perceivable
solutions to help control the problem. When engaged couples are
properly prepared
for marriage maybe we can get back to having fewer divorces and develop
more
long lasting healthy marriages. When couples are educated with proper
information, have dedication and get the skills needed to work through
challenging issues, divorce statistics will start to decrease.
About the
Author
Faye B.
Roberts is an
independent researcher who has gone through a divorce and has suffered
the
effects it has on the entire family. Find out how to start enjoying
your life
again. Divorce and the Family offers a simple solutions to a complex
problem.
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